Should a husband be allowed to control his wife?

[teppa]

Let's have a debate.

Does a man have the right to control his wife?

Decide if she should work or not or tell her what to wear?

Some men quite like their girlfriends to dress sexily then after they marry them, it a case of 'cover yourself up'.

Is it the same when a man is unfaithful to his wife, when she does it back?

Interested to hear your views.

I personally believe that as mankind cannot function without man or woman, that makes us equal.

But as I say, what do you think?

[peekaboo]

There should be an even split in the relationship. With this 50/50 aspect both parties will be content and thus less problems will exhort. If noone is inferior to anyone then there is respect with respect there is communication, the key to most problems.

Why wouldnt a guy want their wife to work? If there is no turst then why the hell are you in the relationship? AS far as dressing, COMMUNICATION, speak and respect us like your other half and not a piece of meat. I promise you if the person has any kind of love for you they will resort to different styles. As far as cheating goes, there is absoultely no difference. Don't do it period. Why would you want to hurt that person in your life. It's better you end it then cheat, thats the worse thing you can possibly do.

[LuLe_ShQerre]

OMG this topic is ridiculous, YOU KNOW HOW ALBANIANS ARE DEAL WITH IT

[Qupulina]

[quote:6ee61b6a68="LeToro"]Let's not have a debate.

[/quote:6ee61b6a68] sometimes ur right :lol:

i find this topic over and over preoccupying us for no reason :roll: so lets not have a debate couse i hope no one is taking the controling side :wink:

[Dardani76]

No problem with me i'm a modern kind of person! As long as my wifey lets me date i will let her do the same! :wink:

[ScandalouZ_MUaHXxZ]

lol. ok this topic has already been discussed many many times. u guys probably already know my views on this so im not gonna bother to type it up again.

[Xhafer]

I know this has been said before but: I think if the wife allows her husband to go out with the boys and date other girls then he should not control her. But if she is waiting for him at the door when he comes home late at night then obviously some sort of control is needed there.

[EL_Barto]

[quote:0fb9f8ac51="Xhafer"]I know this has been said before but: I think if the wife allows her husband to go out with the boys and date other girls then he should not control her. But if she is waiting for him at the door when he comes home late at night then obviously some sort of control is needed there.[/quote:0fb9f8ac51]

Someone should read this post Hint Hint :lol:

[Debbie]

Dont know about the rest in here, but when i read that you should control your wife the "albanian way" i take that as a negative thing.

If your marriage is based on trust you should not control your wife or hubby!!

From my point of view the albanian way is trust and love and no fucking control!

Get a life all ya control freaks out there :x

[Debbie]

Ok, then we´re cool. :D

i get so fucking frustrated when people type "the albanian way" what the fucking way is the albanian way.
The albanian way can only be the best man, and to come up here and be using the "albanian way" in a negative way that ainr fear, so what in tryin to say is that [b:eeb3eb28ae]the albanian way is the best way[/b:eeb3eb28ae] got it folx!!??

[DearthGory]

come on... men and women will never be equal even tho it sounds good... In some relationshions women dominate and some men do... It depends on the couples!

[ScandalouZ_MUaHXxZ]

whatever relationship ill get involved in...the man and women will be equal!

[kaqurelja]

control shouldn't be a part of a relationship or marriage.......its called communication people!

[MiSsMaLsia04]

well really these days the husband doesnt control the wife. the wife controls the husband :D

[Jesika_Simpsaj]

Should a husband be allowed to control his wife?

Hell yeah!!! He should keep her on lockdown 24/7 and allow her a only a few moments around the courtyard for fresh air and exercise....but only if she cooks a great meal and is able to produce a male heir.

Once in a while you should take your wife to dinner, but only on YOUR birthday. Visitors are allowed only on annual holidays and her mother should be allowed every 4 years.

.........every male's fantasy. Too bad you'll never see it. :lol:

[DearthGory]

[quote:8c36ed859f="Jesika_Simpsaj"]Should a husband be allowed to control his wife?

Hell yeah!!! He should keep her on lockdown 24/7 and allow her a only a few moments around the courtyard for fresh air and exercise....but only if she cooks a great meal and is able to produce a male heir.

Once in a while you should take your wife to dinner, but only on YOUR birthday. Visitors are allowed only on annual holidays and her mother should be allowed every 4 years.

.........every male's fantasy. Too bad you'll never see it. :lol:[/quote:8c36ed859f]

OH MAN :twisted:

[illirus]

It's like this If the woman doesn't work she will never be equal she'll always has to ask about money. If she makes more than the man u're in trouble. She control the money and the $ex. If they make an equal amount ,then since the woman was created from Adam's body and its because the woman told Adam to eat that apple and we're suffering because of it than the woman shouldn't be equal. :lol:

It depends on the people in the relationship.

[ScandalouZ_MUaHXxZ]

then of course...if u dont believe the whole adam and eve theory...that idea doesnt work lol.

[TiRoNcE4ShO]

are u guys serious??? u really want an answer to this???????

pffffff fcuk noooooooo....no one can controll anyoneeee

[illirus]

Tironce po e dime qe s'te kontrollojm dot ty, se ti je nga tirona pa jo per gje.

jk. This whole topic is a joke.

[TiRoNcE4ShO]

lene lene se me shkoi jeta tu zbut kafsh....mka ra i tropojan per pjes.... :lol:

[illirus]

lol, pse te ka rene ate e ke zgjedhur vete. Apo i re ti per pjese?

[TiRoNcE4ShO]

jo re se nuk e zgjodha vet un...e kisha vdekje ne fillim...ku me kishte shku naiher neper men me shku me tropojan mu

but it is true that u cant control ur feelings and it suckssssssss :evil:






:lol:

[illirus]

Nice how things work in this world.

[DearthGory]

uhh we are seeing some tironce4sho action tonight.. give me mroe !!! lol

[HamShaitan]

WHY stealest thou along so furtively in the twilight, Zarathustra? And what hidest thou so carefully under thy mantle?

Is it a treasure that hath been given thee? Or a child that hath been born thee? Or goest thou thyself on a thief's errand, thou friend of the evil?Verily, my brother, said Zarathustra, it is a treasure that hath been given me: it is a little truth which I carry.

But it is naughty, like a young child; and if I hold not its mouth, it screameth too loudly.

As I went on my way alone today, at the hour when the sun declineth, there met me an old woman, and she spake thus unto my soul:

"Much hath Zarathustra spoken also to us women, but never spake he unto us concerning woman."

And I answered her: "Concerning woman, one should only talk unto men."

"Talk also unto me of woman," said she; "I am old enough to forget it presently."

And I obliged the old woman and spake thus unto her:

Everything in woman is a riddle, and everything in woman hath one solution- it is called pregnancy.

Man is for woman a means: the purpose is always the child. But what is woman for man?

Two different things wanteth the true man: danger and diversion. Therefore wanteth he woman, as the most dangerous plaything.

Man shall be trained for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior: all else is folly.

Too sweet fruits- these the warrior liketh not. Therefore liketh he woman;- bitter is even the sweetest woman.

Better than man doth woman understand children, but man is more childish than woman.

In the true man there is a child hidden: it wanteth to play. Up then, ye women, and discover the child in man!

A plaything let woman be, pure and fine like the precious stone, illumined with the virtues of a world not yet come.

Let the beam of a star shine in your love! Let your hope say: "May I bear the Superman!"

In your love let there be valour! With your love shall ye assail him who inspireth you with fear!

In your love be your honour! Little doth woman understand otherwise about honour. But let this be your honour: always to love more than ye are loved, and never be the second.

Let man fear woman when she loveth: then maketh she every sacrifice, and everything else she regardeth as worthless.

Let man fear woman when she hateth: for man in his innermost soul is merely evil; woman, however, is mean.

Whom hateth woman most?- Thus spake the iron to the loadstone: "I hate thee most, because thou attractest, but art too weak to draw unto thee."

The happiness of man is, "I will." The happiness of woman is, "He will."

"Lo! "Lo! now hath the world become perfect!"- thus thinketh every woman when she obeyeth with all her love.

Obey, must the woman, and find a depth for her surface. Surface is woman's soul, a mobile, stormy film on shallow water.

Man's soul, however, is deep, its current gusheth in subterranean caverns: woman surmiseth its force, but comprehendeth it not.Then answered me the old woman: "Many fine things hath Zarathustra said, especially for those who are young enough for them.

Strange! Zarathustra knoweth little about woman, and yet he is right about them! Doth this happen, because with women nothing is impossible?

And now accept a little truth by way of thanks! I am old enough for it!

Swaddle it up and hold its mouth: otherwise it will scream too loudly, the little truth."

"Give me, woman, thy little truth!" said I. And thus spake the old woman:

"[b:4135574fde]Thou goest to women? Do not forget thy whip![/b:4135574fde]"

Thus spake Zarathustra.


-Fr. Nietzsche (old Illyrian thinker)

[albabrunet]

I don’t think man should take control over and woman should not do it as well.
I really hate it when man start to tell their wife what to wear. I am never going to let this happen to me. Ok. In 5 years time when I am married and have kids I am not going to wear the shortest skirt. I will steal wear jeans and nice tops or if I do wear skirts not to be very short. And I will never stop my husband going out with his mates. As long as I know with who he is.

[ally2086]

i believe that has man has a right to control their wife not gfs soo much but like ive been reading on some of the posts albanian guys do control their wives etc and i think its ok just for the fact hes protective of you...

[crusad3r]

Let's debate something more serious: How should we execute all the fcuking fags, by public hanging or burning them alive? I prefer the latter.....

Let's have a debate.

Does a man have the right to control his wife?

Decide if she should work or not or tell her what to wear?

Some men quite like their girlfriends to dress sexily then after they marry them, it a case of 'cover yourself up'.

Is it the same when a man is unfaithful to his wife, when she does it back?

Interested to hear your views.

I personally believe that as mankind cannot function without man or woman, that makes us equal.

But as I say, what do you think?

[ally2086]

thats what i meant my bf is protective and wants nothing to happen to me he watches out for me

[FallenAngeL]

..NO men have no right to control their wives...being protective and controllin is a completely different issue....women obviously should be able to go to work why not???...and if the husband/wife doesnt trust their partner then what are they doing together...if you aint got trust you;ve got nothing ....your basically just wasting your time.......


and if a man cheats why would it be different to when a woman cheats....its exactly the SAME...

[gaylordfooker]

i believe that has man has a right to control their wife not gfs soo much but like ive been reading on some of the posts albanian guys do control their wives etc and i think its ok just for the fact hes protective of you...
stop brinign back old threads **** face/

[ally2086]

who cares if i look at the old threads and reply on it....

[Njeshizzle]

Having this topic opened on an Albanian forum is embarrasing, not suprising, because we have had are share of futile and senseless topics before, but nonetheless this is pretty high up there. If a foreigner came in to this forum wanting to make an estamation and find out more about Albanians only from the idea that we are discussing such arcane topics he would conclude that Albanians are backwards male chuavinistic bigots. I mean honestly what is there to discuss about in this topic, should women be treated like cattle and sheep, would have been a better more eye catching and right to the point title. Were you actually wrestling with this question and needed some advice on how you should approach the topic. Or were you simply trying to see if your ludicrious ideas actually had a fan base and perhaps, only maybe, you guys could hold weekly meetings and discuss ways in which you would regulate women and show your dominance. What is next weeks topic Should Women be allowed to Vote?

[albobatman.]

Should women have the right to exist?

I say we exterminate them.

[_AuLoNa_]

Should women have the right to exist?

I say we exterminate them.


awww, even your zemer:rolleyes:

[albobatman.]

My zemer isn't a female; she's a goddess.

[_AuLoNa_]

My zemer isn't a female; she's a goddess.


well than I am safe casue that's what I am called too;)

[noondeplume]

Let's have a debate.

Does a man have the right to control his wife?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ncqYh6ZUQI (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ncqYh6ZUQI)

No -- it's more fun to make love...;) :) :p :D

[_AuLoNa_]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ncqYh6ZUQI (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ncqYh6ZUQI)

No -- it's more fun to make love...;) :) :D


right on the money;)

[AErodita]

Control? No I don't believe so.

BUT if they care and love one another they will meet each other half way and abandon their selfish ways in order to communicate and make it work the way it should always be done!

And as for cheating, there is no excuse. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, if you cheat youve brought an end to the relationship.

[ILIRI I MADH]

I think women should be controled, coz as soon as the first **** pops up they are the first victims to it...So no hos I don't trust u not even a second!

[_AuLoNa_]

I think women should be controled, coz as soon as the first **** pops up they are the first victims to it...So no hos I don't trust u not even a second!

Well if you choose to marry a stupid woman, one of thouse dollfaces that do not know how to add, and have no clue about life, offcourse you can't trust them even taking care of themselves forget other things:rolleyes:

[GotGTO]

Well if you choose to marry a stupid woman, one of thouse dollfaces that do not know how to add, and have no clue about life, offcourse you can't trust them even taking care of themselves forget other things:rolleyes:


Do you hate yourself that much :confused:

[_AuLoNa_]

Do you hate yourself that much :confused:


No on the contrary, I like who I am don't you read my signature. It fits my personality:)

[GotGTO]

Between the freaky doll face and the weird signature, you are officially the scariest person i have ever seen come across this forum.

I'll try and stay on your good side. :)

[playindagamewell]

Absolutely not. There is a thing called compromise.

[_AuLoNa_]

Between the freaky doll face and the weird signature, you are officially the scariest person i have ever seen come across this forum.

I'll try and stay on your good side. :)


Well I think you forgot to see your own avatar that you have on. I guess you have just presented yourself without us asking you;)

[Epirjoti]

Let's have a debate.

Does a man have the right to control his wife?

Decide if she should work or not or tell her what to wear?

Some men quite like their girlfriends to dress sexily then after they marry them, it a case of 'cover yourself up'.

Is it the same when a man is unfaithful to his wife, when she does it back?

Interested to hear your views.

I personally believe that as mankind cannot function without man or woman, that makes us equal.

But as I say, what do you think?





NO!!!


The wife should LET the husband control her... :D

[pilemadh]

I think if your not comfortable with the way a women dresses or dont agree with her on all these kind of things, DONT MARRY HER. Simple as that. or other way around. Why would you have to control a women if you already knew how she was when you met her? I dont understand this question.

wtf is this stupid ass topic.

[proudzemra]

thats the most reason thing iv heard in this thread so far pilemadh :) ^^
there is someone 4 everybody out there,so why would anyone pic a partner they would not click with,but has to control and change :confused:

[FallenAngeL]

I think women should be controled, coz as soon as the first **** pops up they are the first victims to it...So no hos I don't trust u not even a second!




you shouldnt marry someone you cant trust....why would anyone do that....theres no poin if you dont trust eachother than your just wasting your time€!!

[albobatman.]

^LMAO vinnie, man your a legend.

[GotGTO]

Well I think you forgot to see your own avatar that you have on. I guess you have just presented yourself without us asking you;)

Presented myself? I simply presented a squirl with big balls... I am allowed to present any avatar that I wish... yes? Yours, combined with your sig, was just scary to me.

Don't get too deep, you might get confused and lost. :(

[alboboy10]

Not only is it his god-given right, but it is guaranteed in the constitution of the United States of Albania.


A female should not have such choices, I decide even the color of her thongs.


It doesn't matter what she wears after marriage because she won't be allowed to leave the house.



Only if she enjoys a shot gun blast to her head.



I will ignore this for obvious reasons. :rolleyes:


lmaooo at the bolded
otb for president

[_AuLoNa_]

Presented myself? I simply presented a squirl with big balls... I am allowed to present any avatar that I wish... yes? Yours, combined with your sig, was just scary to me.

Don't get too deep, you might get confused and lost. :(

Whenever have I been confused:confused: in any topics, that one of my strengths being foocused mostly when I want to win;)

[sweet_vajze]

thats what i meant my bf is protective and wants nothing to happen to me he watches out for me

i think you have control and protective mixed up ally..

just like you mixed up 1 week and 1 month..

big difference between all of them..

[ALI_GEGH]

tekka its not about control but about responsibilities on both sides. Also both parties need to be faithful to eachother. They both belong to eachother so there is no point for his wife to dress sexy in public she is married now she doesnt need to impress other guys she made an oath. Its got nothing to do with control. But with things like work and cleaning etc. he cannot force her she needs to be responsible for certain duties and chores herself and so should he.

[Acid Burn]

Controlling for some girls means:<<Responsibilities on both sides;)>>

[Dee Dee]

A controlling man? No thank you! Marriage is about partnership not one person having domination over another.

[BukuroshjaPejane]

Neither partner should be controlling, a marriage is a 50 50 comitment. If for some reason u dont trust ur partner then maybe u shouldnt be with them. Old fashioned is ok, but the controlling deff not! come on boys were not in the 70's anymore:p

[BukuroshjaPejane]

tekka its not about control but about responsibilities on both sides. Also both parties need to be faithful to eachother. They both belong to eachother so there is no point for his wife to dress sexy in public she is married now she doesnt need to impress other guys she made an oath. Its got nothing to do with control. But with things like work and cleaning etc. he cannot force her she needs to be responsible for certain duties and chores herself and so should he.

Is there smth wrong with dressing sexy and classy? for ur husband? y would she be dressing like that for anyone else? Once u get married u can careless about other guys u have the one u love. I dont see anything wrong with dressing sexy, ur husband is not going to want anyone who looks like a cleaning woman or just rolled out of bed, that is deff not cute!

[PaulyGOne]

Neither partner should be controlling, a marriage is a 50 50 comitment. If for some reason u dont trust ur partner then maybe u shouldnt be with them. Old fashioned is ok, but the controlling deff not! come on boys were not in the 70's anymore:p
You hit the nail on the head, if you have chosen right, you will never need to control ur wife, its a mutual understanding, a sixth sence, where you both dont need to say shit to eachother as you both know how to act appropriately! If you need to control then that means some where along the lines you lost control.

[ALI_GEGH]

Is there smth wrong with dressing sexy and classy? for ur husband? y would she be dressing like that for anyone else? Once u get married u can careless about other guys u have the one u love. I dont see anything wrong with dressing sexy, ur husband is not going to want anyone who looks like a cleaning woman or just rolled out of bed, that is deff not cute!How old are you 12? if you read my thread properly you would see that I said she shouldnt be dressing sexy infront of OTHER men but with her husband ofcourse she should dress up as sexy as she can for him at home.

[Acid Burn]

^But when she is going outside with him,she must be wraped:rolleyes:

I have come in conclusion that there are different kinds of girls,there are some girls that need to be controled by their bfs/husbands they need to be leaded,there are some others that the more you would want to controll them the more they will say NO,and with time they will dump you if you keep consisting on that! There are some others that they like a bit of freedom and controlling in the mean time,so if you like very much the girl,you should find out how does she want to be treated;)

Do you know what?
I want my gf to be dressed as sexy as she can to be very HOT,in order that the other peopel around to go crazy and gossiping us in the street,i love that feeling:D (I mentioned gf bcz i think that i won't be never married,to risky for me i guess!)

[Eroida]

How old are you 12? if you read my thread properly you would see that I said she shouldnt be dressing sexy infront of OTHER men but with her husband ofcourse she should dress up as sexy as she can for him at home.

I believe every woman would do that for a real man. Unfortunately there are none left. So today men can't and should not control women..since they are losers and women are much stronger in every sense. Today men are some femalish assholes, fake personalities...

Actually I feel much stronger then every man. Thereof no man can control me since I am better than all of them. Men = Mut ;)..hohohoohoo
:)

[PaulyGOne]

I believe every woman would do that for a real man. Unfortunately there are none left. So today men can't and should not control women..since they are losers and women are much stronger in every sense. Today men are some femalish assholes, fake personalities...

Actually I feel much stronger then every man. Thereof no man can control me since I am better than all of them. Men = Mut ;)..hohohoohoo
:)

Ban Eroida!:D

Dont take me serious hun, i want to ban everyone, especially me!:p

[Acid Burn]

^^^^agreed:D

[exenter]

What kind of stupid question is this??? We don't live in Middle East FFS!